3 Tips For How To Deal With Public Speaking Fear, Nervousness and Anxiety

Robert Kennedy III
3 min readMay 4, 2021

I saw a question online that asked what causes public speaking anxiety? What causes people to be so fearful about public speaking? I remember the very first time that I was on stage; my mouth went dry. I could feel my tongue. I could feel every bump on my tongue. And I looked out into the audience, and I saw a thousand eyes. A thousand eyes focused on me. That was my first public speaking experience.

It was a crazy, nerve-wracking experience. And the reason why it was nervous and nerve-wracking for me, was the same reason that a lot of people don’t want to speak. The number one reason people are anxious about public speaking is that they think everybody is there to judge them and critique them. They believe that everybody is sitting in the audience with a great book and a notepad ready to write down everything that is going wrong. This couldn’t be further from the truth.

The reason that persons are there is to gain value. So if you think that they’re there to judge you and critique you, and that is playing in your head, then that’s…

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Robert Kennedy III

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